re|engage Resources

Lesson 1: Love

Article: “102 Little Things that say I Love You” by Darlene Schacht

Article: “23 Things that Love Is..” by Paul Tripp

ReEngage Reminder: “What is Love?” Chad and Megan Lacefield

Lesson 2: Brokenness

Article: “Waiting on a Spouse to Change” Joy McClain

Article: “How to Manage your sin (& not your marriage)” by Scott Kedersha

Article: “Pornography: The New Narcotic” by John Piper

Lesson 3: Grace

ReEngage Reminder: “Grace:When Love meets Perfection” Kyle & Crystal Glenn

Bible: 2 Peter 3:18, Colossians 3:16, Colossians 3:1-4

(Book) Extravagant Grace by Barbara Duguid

Lesson 4: Humility

Article: “The Two Dimensions of Marriage” Gary Thomas

Article; “Don’t Believe in Yourself” Marshall Segal

(Audio) “Humility” by John McGee

Lesson 5 & 6: Forgiveness

(Book)“Choosing Forgiveness” by Nancy Leigh Demoss

Article: “4 Habits that lead a Husband & Wife to Forgiveness” by Darlene Schacht

ReEngage Reminder: “No Sweeping” Matt and Sonja McCuen

Article: “Do We need to Forgive?” John McGee

Lesson 7: Contentment

Article:“Marriage: Counting the Days or Making Every Day Count?” Tim Belt Article: “What did you expect? A Trust Questionnaire” by Pauld David Tripp

Lesson 8: Truth

Article: “Reframe your Difficulties: See God’s Reality” by Deepak Reju

Article: “How do you Really Feel?” by Nina Ruesner

(Book) “Spiritual Intimacy for Couples” by Charles and Virginia Sell

Lesson 9: Communication

Article: “5 Communication Tools that Saved my Marriage” by Rob Flood

Article: “The Communication Difference” by Ron Deal (for Blended families)

(Audio) Understanding the Crazy Cycle by Emerson Eggerichs

(Audio) What’s your tone when things are going wrong? by Ted Lowe

(Book)” Love & Respect” by Emerson Eggerichs

Lesson 10: Conflict

Article: “Why do we keep arguing?” by Tim and Joy Downs

Article: Conflict Field Guide- Watermark church

Article: “Getting to the Heart of Conflict” by Ken Sande/Peacemaker Ministries

Article: “Six Questions to ask Before Raising Conflict” by Elizabeth Russell

Lesson 11: Expectations

Re/Engage Reminder: “Looking to God for Fulfillment” Sheridan and Bo French

Article: “He’s Not the Spiritual Leader I wanted” by Greg, Gary, and Erin Smalley

(Book) “What did you Expect” by Paul David Tripp

Lesson 12: Understand

Article; “Emotional Affairs are a Dangerous Game in a Marriage” by Ben Wilson

Article: “5 Love Languages for Couples” by Gary Chapman

(book) “For Men Only” by Shaunti and Jeff Feldahn

(book) “For Women Only” by Shaunti and Jeff Feldahn

Lesson 13: Emotional Intimacy

Re/Engage Reminder: “Emotional Intimacy: Transparency” Brian and Amy Holt

Article: “Weekly Questions” by Emily Loreke

(Audio) One Series: Oneness- Matt Williams Grace Church

Lesson 14: Sexual Intimacy

Re/Engage Reminder: “Sexual Intimacy: And It is Good “Trey and Anna Tomlinson

(book) “Sheet Music” by Kevin Leman

(Audio) One Series: Intimacy Matt Williams Grace Church

Lesson 15: Completion

Article: “Superglue your Marriage” by Dennis Rainey

Article: “5 Characteristics of a Godly Man” by Todd Wagner

Article: “5 Characteristics of a Godly Woman” by Todd Wagner

Lesson 16: Diligence

Article: “10 Things that have Made All the Difference” by Emily Loerke

Article: “124 Killer Date Ideas” by Scott Kedersha

Bible: 1 Corinthians 2:4-5, John 14:15, 1 Corinthians 9:27