Wisdom and Parenting

Wisdom and Parenting

Scofield Foster Staff Photo (Updated)

Scofield Foster

Downtown Campus Pastor

Key Points

  • Our goal as parents is for our kids to grow in ancient wisdom.

  • Disciplining our kids leads them toward humility and wisdom.

  • To love our children is to discipline them. God disciplines those he loves—a model for parents who love their children.

  • Human beings are made in God’s image, yet are infected by sin and prone to folly. Discipline is painful, but it is a tool that yields wisdom and promotes what is good for us.

  • Training, restraint, and obedience bring joy to our lives. A lack of restraint leads to destructive consequences.

  • Parents need to engage kids through both connection and correction.

Application

  • Parents need community (to share with and learn from one another).

  • Parents can repent (even if it means apologizing to their kids when necessary).

  • Do not parent out of fear.

  • Parents need to evaluate time allocation.

  • Parents need to celebrate what we want repeated.